Etiquette

I believe every meaningful relationship is characterized by consistent, clear communication rooted in a deep mutual respect for each other. While I acknowledge the thoroughness of my policies, I’d prefer to have my expectations clear and avoid any misunderstandings so that we can focus on savoring our time together.

Important note: All donations, deposits, reimbursements and/or any form of money being exchanged are strictly for my time only. Any activity that may or may not occur are personal choices between consenting adults of legal age and is not contracted for, requested to be contracted for, nor compensated for in any manner.

Any mentions of explicit acts, including implied, subtle, covert, coded, or abbreviated references to such acts, as well as any attempt to haggle or negotiate my Consideration will end our communications immediately.

Planning Ahead, New Suitors, & First Dates

Please book with as much advance notice as possible and at a minimum of 72 hours in advance as time is needed for screening, securing deposits, and getting ready for our date. I will likely ignore last minute requests.

I am a part-time companion and have a busy day job that I also love, so please be understanding if I cannot accommodate your initially requested dates. My schedule with these other commitments varies from week to week, but I will do my best to supply you with alternative options should your initially requested dates be unavailable.

I am highly selective of new suitors, specifically choosing suitors those who make me feel respected and safe. For this reason, I tend to prioritize longer dates, typically recommending 3 hours for drinks or 4.5 hours for dinner for a first date, as it goes a long way to show that you’d like to get to know me.

Communications

My primary method of communication is email. I immediately block all communications that include disrespectful and/or entitled behavior, inappropriate pictures, low effort messages, etc. and prioritize suitors who are respectful, communicate clearly, and have our safety in mind.

Remember that any reference to explicit acts, any reference to money being exchanged for anything other than my time, and any attempts to haggle or negotiate will also end our communications immediately.

Note: I use ProtonMail for email—you may need to check your spam folder in you don’t see an expected message from me.

Screening

Screening is mandatory for our safety and is non-negotiable. Your private information will not be shared in any way. I prefer and prioritize suitors who submit all three of the following but require two at a minimum (in order of importance):

Government ID: 1) An image of a government-issued ID and 2) an selfie of you clearly holding this ID (you may use a mirror).

Proof of Employment: 1) LinkedIn profile with name, photo, and 300+ connections; 2) a blank email sent from your established work email to an unlisted email address with the subject line “contact info”; or 3) established company website profile with name and photo.

References: Two references from established companions (ask for their permission first) you have seen in the last 12 months, including their websites, social media, and email.

In addition to the above, for any combination of screening options, include a current selfie with you visibly holding a paper with the month & day of your requested date.

Deposits & Reimbursements

In order to secure a booking, a 20% nonrefundable deposit of my Consideration must be completed after screening and date confirmation. Options for deposits include cash (a brief public meet if you are local), Visa gift card, or Bitcoin.

The additional $300 donation (per hotel night needed) for Incall is to be included along with the 20% deposit. This additional donation is also nonrefundable.

Reimbursements for transportation for Outcall and for transportation, flight or train adjustments, 4-5 star hotel accommodations, if necessary, for Tours are to be included with the 20% deposit. These forward reimbursements are also nonrefundable.

Fly Me To You requires a 50% nonrefundable deposit and a reimbursement of a business/first class flight or train, 4-5 star hotel accommodations, and transportation. These forward reimbursements are also nonrefundable.

Cancellations

I understand that sometimes life hits us with some unforeseeable twists and turns that may alter our grand plans. That said, cancellations often equate to missed opportunities in my life, so please be understanding about my cancellation policy, based on time in advance.

72+ hrs: I keep all deposits, all of which can be used toward a rescheduled date.

<72 hrs: I keep all deposits and a 50% deposit will be required to reschedule for a new date.

No Shows: I keep all deposits and a 100% deposit will be required to reschedule a new date.

I am also likely to deprioritize new dates in the future for anyone with a history of cancellations, especially for a No Show.

If I have to cancel, all deposits will be refunded, and I will heavily prioritize a rescheduled date with you.

Consideration

Donations are to be made in cash, unless otherwise stated.

Incall: Leave the donation in an unsealed envelope outside of the bathroom in plain view upon arrival and excuse yourself to freshen up. I will not take the donation from you directly nor will I discuss the donation.

Outcall: Leave the donation in an unsealed envelope in plain view on the counter in the bathroom prior to my arrival. I will excuse myself to freshen up. I will not take the donation from you directly nor will I discuss the donation.

Meeting in public: Leave the donation in an unsealed envelope placed inside a gift bag or book to be given to me upon meeting. I may find an opportunity to freshen up.

Extending dates: Kindly ask if I am available for the additional desired time. If I am, please leave the additional donation in the same manner as an Incall and excuse yourself to freshen up.

Important note: I will never take donations from you directly nor will I ask for or discuss the donations, including in the event that these instructions are not followed. Ignoring these instructions and/or any discussion of money exchanged for explicit acts or for anything other than my time will end the date immediately.

Punctuality

Plan to arrive at least 10 minutes in advance. If you arrive early to an Incall, please remain in your car or the lobby until the arranged time.

If you are on your way but know that you will be late, please send me a communication with an ETA, so I know to wait for you. Dates begin promptly at the start of the arranged time and will not be extended based on your time of arrival.

If you are more than 20 minutes late, the date is considered a No Show, which means your deposits are forfeited.

Hygiene & Health

I will arrive to our date freshly showered, and my request is that you will do the same. That said, I understand that you may lead a busy life and may not always be able to do so right before our date. In these cases, kindly excuse yourself to you freshen up and shower at the beginning of our date.

I am not a smoker, and my lungs are very sensitive to smoke, so please refrain from smoking while I am near.

Be honest about any health concerns, including any transmissible conditions—I would rather postpone and reschedule than risking my health. Keep in mind that I will not engage in unsafe practices that can jeopardize my health.

Consent, Courtesy & Respect

Remember that any donation is strictly for my time only and do not entitle you to anything except for my time. All activities during our date must be consensual, and I reserve the right to end a date at any time if I feel unsafe, threatened, or my boundaries are not being respected. I will not engage in unsafe practices.

Under no circumstances should there be any weapons or illegal drugs present during our date. I will not engage in any illegal activity.

Do not overstay your time as I consider this to be a form of haggling or negotiating, which I do not allow.

Please note that I strictly use she/her pronouns and identify as female when referring to myself in past or present.

Social Time & Sleep

For dates of 3 or more hours, I require some social time such as a drink, a bite, or an excursion of some kind.

For a 15 hr overnight date, I require at least 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep.

For dates of 1 full day or more, I require my own room, at least 9 hours of uninterrupted sleep, and 2 hours of alone time per day to rejuvenate.

I will not consider dates exceeding 1 day with new suitors, and I typically reserve dates beyond 2 days with suitors with whom I have an established relationship with.

Photos, Filming & Recording

Privacy and discretion are cornerstones of my companionship, and I have a strict policy of no photos, filming, or recording of any kind during our time together. If I sense any attempts to do so, I will end the date immediately with no refund and end our relationship. We will not get along if I sense any intent of breaching my privacy.

Reviews, References & Recommendations

Privacy and discretion are cornerstones of my companionship, and I have a strict no-review policy in any forum, board, reddit, review website, or any other space where details of myself or our time together are shared. Please be respectful and keep our time to yourself. If you involve heavily in the review culture, we will not get along.

Any review you see online was done without my consent, in violation of my no-review policy, and potentially written in retaliation for rejecting a request for a date.

Please ask for my permission if you plan to use me as a reference for screening—I typically only provide references for established suitors who I have seen on multiple dates.

If you enjoyed our date, you may make a strictly offline general recommendation by word of mouth, but keep the specific details of our time together to yourself.